Sounds like if she looks at her life she'd see family drama and bad headaches on one end, and calm, peaceful, understanding you on the other.
Not too tough of a choice there.

You're doing great. There's nothing little about her using your last name again. That's BIG! She's thinking.

Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."