Originally Posted By: girlfromipanema

Then just as my alarm was about to ring he joined me in our bed (sexy time). That part wasn't a dream. It was nice. But I miss the emotional connection so much.


Hey girlie, you know I think you're awesome, but something is wrong with this picture.

He won't share a bed with you, but he'll crawl in bed to have sex ? I think I'd have to draw a line here, & tell him no way pal. He's getting his needs met, & you're left hanging. You want him to sleep with you, & you want the emotional connection. Is this you bending ?

Hugs. xoxo


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.