I don't think it's at all bad what you told your H. What you did, Sara, is set a boundary and clarify it for him. The only thing I would have done is put the shirt in the trash and said nothing at all. He did it to get a reaction out of you...giving him no reaction is probably the best thing you can do. Really, it's like what you do with the attention seeking kids at school, right? You don't reward negative behavior with your attention. Same thing here.
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Me: 40 H: 43 H had EA from 2/06-9/06 Bomb 5/06 Piecing since 9/2006 3/2008: Boundary setting 7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb. 8/2010: Marriage finally on track!
