I would have stayed and cranked up the guitar or some music really loud. Danced around, even banged some pots and pans and just rocked out and got happy. Hard to study with all that noise...he might not have left, but he would have completely missed study time too and maybe learned a valuable lesson.

You are definitely getting stronger--good for you!

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!