Puppy, I googled enmeshment. WOW. It is both of us. At least it WAS both of us. An eye opener.
Was for me too, dude. I remember when my wife and I went thru the pre-marriage classes with a sponsorship couple, before we got married. Had to do this little workbook and everything. One of the exercises asked "What do you love about your fiance?" My answer?
