I try to understand that (people being scared to take ownership of thier issues)

But I cant

Self-examination & taking ownership & action pales in comparison to losing my wife.


And if I never did what I am trying to do now, and we moved on with our lives and I met someone else, I would only find myself in a similar boat again in the future..


Me: 37
Wife: 40
Son: 7yo
Son: 18 mo
Bomb: 12/31/07
Status: Reconciled 1/2009 but backsliding terribly right now