I try to understand that (people being scared to take ownership of thier issues)
But I cant
Self-examination & taking ownership & action pales in comparison to losing my wife.
And if I never did what I am trying to do now, and we moved on with our lives and I met someone else, I would only find myself in a similar boat again in the future..
Me: 37 Wife: 40 Son: 7yo Son: 18 mo Bomb: 12/31/07 Status: Reconciled 1/2009 but backsliding terribly right now