Great work today, pat yourself onthe back. You even got invited to lunch!
I thought the e-mail was pretty good with the suggested changes.
I wouldn't approach him with "can we talk" that puts everyone on guard. I would start with
"Hey, H, I just want to apologize for what I said the other night then simply state what you put in your e-mail"
Basically don't put him on guard and don't give him a chance to say no. You will probably surprise him with your candor and willingness to accept your part.
As far as method goes. Yo uknow him better than anyone. Does he respond better to a written letter, a heart to heart talk in person, a phone call, etc. Which ever one it is, pick the time he is typically the most receptive and in the best mood and do it!
Best wishes!!!! Hope your weekend continues to improve!
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning