Sleeper, I could guess first from your references and second because you spell well.
I think you should stay here for a while yet. (in this forum). You can still be D but not done. I fear I may be joining you but I am finding that I am surprisingly OK with things.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D