true sugar, thats what I am afraid of as well...I said to H last nite, your coming home,, well when,, and all he said was he was making arrangements to come home,, I feel like he is probably trying to arrange for OW to take over his place,, but that is right down the street from our home,,, but until she has "somewhere" else to go he won't leave,, and i'm going to have a real hard time giving him the money for his rent this month,, almost tempted to give him half and tell her to come up with the other half... the money is the problem, H has not taken any of his paychecks, etc. from me or the kids yet, so thus the other reason i'm so torn, do I start saying no you can't have it and take that security from my kids,, or do I just keep paying what he needs until he comes home,, if he does?
MAZ Me 40 H 42 M 1990 Together 20 years Bomb 2/16/08 Separated 03/01/2008 2 boys 12 & 15
