Please make any suggestions....and an ending. I particulary don't like the last paragraph...
H, I know you don’t want to talk right now, and I don’t blame you. I do have to say something though. When I said that nothing was going to change, and that we don’t have a chance I was frustrated. I didn’t mean those words, and I want to apologize. I know the many things I need to change, and have been working on them with my therapist. Change is hard, and is coming slower than I thought it would, but it is coming along and that’s why I’m still going. My mouth however gets me in more trouble when I talk to you. No excuses, just a sincere apology.
When I invited you over the other night, it wasn’t strictly sex that I wanted (although certainly a good excuse). I wanted to connect with you. I wanted to see you. My family means more to me than anything in this world, and you and the kids are my number one priority.
Again, I understand your frustration with me. As I said, changes are taking a long time, but no matter what I’m committed to seeing it through. I’d love the chance to talk to you about the steps I’m making in myself. And I would jump at the chance to go to marriage counseling together. I’m open to any suggestions or exercises to improve our relationship and put things on the mend.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
