I've always had a tough time detaching. Probably because stbx tries to reel me back in all the time. Sadly.. it still somewhat works. He's Mr Nice Guy one day and then gets so cold toward me. I do, however, leave out ALL details of my current life. He likes to make small talk about what is happening with him and I just nod and say "uh huh"...

Right now he's trying to intimidate me regarding the finances of the D. I'm sure he'll do the same when it comes to splitting time w/D4. No amicable D like lwb... it just sucks...

oh.. and, I just took down all of our wedding pics.. I know.. kind of late for that but, I had them up in case ow happened to be over for a "visit"!