we (WAS) do notice and it does take a long time, with regularity & consistency, to reassure us that your changes are 'for real'. Even after you win us back, these need to be changes that are in place for good.
Keep it up. It does matter, we do notice, & hopefully it will bring you peace to know you changed for the better for you.
Divorced 03/2010 Mom to two amazing kids
Taking the road less traveled because those encountered on the way may be just as unique.