Not much input from the board, expect for Puppy Dog Tails opinion that my W is having an A. I tend to agree with him. I believe that is in an EA at this time but that my W is obsessed with the OM in a mental/emotional fantasy. Nothing that I can do about it except for DBing and presenting a better option.
Not true at all, Eagle. There are LOTS of things you can do; various approaches. It all depends on how much fallout you can personally withstand, and how long you feel you can hold out with the more passive approaches.