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So????? Did you hurl? When I lived in New Jersey I worked for a relocation agency and had to go to court almost monthly and that is something I never got used to. So I do understand.

Hey, a lb?? Phew, that's nothing but a minor inconvenience. Don't give it another moments thought. Just keep doing what you have been. Ok Jarod?

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Hang in there, you'll lose that lb and more in no time.

So glad to hear that your life is going fabulously. You deserve it!!!!

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Hey everybody! TGIF!!! Especially cuz it feels like a Monday and I am ready to MURDER a few annoying clients. Ahhh bliss. ;\)

The seminar I went to yesterday on 'play therapy' was good... glad to be back to work. Next week I'm buzzing over to denver w/ a coworker to just have a fun overnight or 2 so that'll be nice. X leaves on Monday (I think) for Belize with OW. So I get the girls to myself (and for father's day, no less!!! wonder if I'll get breakfast in bed AGAIN!!! His loss).

I wanted to share a conversation I had w/ D7 earlier in the week. D7 was talking about seeing her C this week... she will continue to see her school C every other week for summer which is super cool...

D7: Since D5 is going to be going to my school next year, will she be able to see Miss Emily too?

Me: I don't know, sweetie... Miss Emily has a pretty full schedule. We'll have to wait to see.

D7: I guess she could take my place. I can probably handle it better than she can.

Me: You can probably handle what better?

D7: The D. B (D5) is so mad at you.

Me: At ME???!??!!!

D7: Well, at both of you.

So, not sure if this is projection or if D5 is sharing more with D7 than with me. Either way, it's probably time to hook her up w/ Miss Emily.

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Thanks for stopping by Jill, BH and Bethie. Court sucked. I didn't hurl. But ick. But that's the client who has been driving me crazy the last 2 days so I'm over my nausea. lol


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It surprises how much more sometimes my s10 knows about d5 than I do. You have some smart 7yr old.

I too get kids on father's day, stbx supposedly works, whatever, as you said, his loss.


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I have no doubt the girls confide in each other. But, I'd bet there's an element of projection too. We tell them to play nice and get along. Go figure sometimes we can't.

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Julie--
Glad that your D7 spoke with you. And know that they will come to see what was what, someday. Which still makes me sad for our children, anyway.

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Jey Julius,

You have 2 very smart and very sensitive girls. I'm so glad that J is able to talk to you and that she is watching out for her little sister. You'll do the right thing for them. You always do!

Love you...........

Bethie

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Good monday morning friends!!!

I have the day off so as soon as i finish my one little appointment, the girls and I are having a DAY OF FUN... park, swimming pool, etc.

One thing I've noticed thru this 'new' job is that I have poor boundaries... I've had a client call me at 2AM just to let me know she was planning on being at her sup visit in 2 days... I'm back to working on the weekends, but mostly just the weekends I don't have the kids. So, at least I'm noticing it's an area that I need to improve. AND I don't tend to make the same mistake twice so it's all a learning experience.


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Julie -
Are there situations where you would HAVE to answer a phone call from a client at 2 am? You're not a doctor. Can't they leave a voice mail? You should have a separate phone number for work and you should turn that phone off at night, unless you truly have to be available for emergency call in the middle of the night.

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