It's just so amazing to me how these people can do these horrific things with seemingly no regrets or remorse and go on living happy and succesful lives.
But I'm working on what I can control, my own life.
whitelight,
Please do not believe the illusion. Yes, I do think most of the spouses who leave "appear" to have a great life for a season. You must remember most of these people are SO full of pride. They would NEVER dare tell their friends or family how they REALLY are doing. Most would rather jump off a cliff than admit they made a mistake or are unhappy. I would not count on anyone seeing the negative impact for years if ever. They will want to keep up the charade of happiness as long as possible.
Take Care,
NMD
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
