Yes, Kerry, please upgrade that bedding STAT! I still laugh every time I read "Donnie and Marie". So cute. My dog sleeps with me and my cat will join us on occassion.

I moved to the middle as an act of defiance. Kind of like, "Oh yeah. You wanna sleep downstairs? Fine, I'll just scooch on over and enjoy alllll this wonderful space. I don't need your warm body in my bed. I'll be fine all by myself. So there."

I had a dream that my husband found out about DB. I was sitting with a few of my fellow DBers and my husband showed up and started mocking me asking if I thought I could actually bust my divorce. Then just as my alarm was about to ring he joined me in our bed (sexy time). That part wasn't a dream. It was nice. But I miss the emotional connection so much.


M: 37
H: 36
Married: Aug 13, 2004
Decision to Divorce: July 20, 2008
Reconciled: September 2008
Current: Ambivalence