in limbo and an emotional mess...

[Hope4us]

mzul-


I understand how you feel about your H defending OW or his getting angry at her XH calling you. Mine is the same way. OW's H in my case calls me from time to time. I'd never told H about it, but apparently OW tells him because a few times I've gotten the.......I know you've talked! comment. SO WHAT! We talked....we didn't have SEX! Last week my H & I were talking and I told him how upset I was to find out through OW's H that my H was moving out soon. Not upset about the moving because I know it's coming. Upset about not finding out through my H. My H threw a fit. He called OW's H every name in the book. He told me that I need to tell him never to call me again and that he wouldn't wish OW's H on his worst enemy.

Not to TJ but I heard the same thing Sue. When I confronted my WW about still talking to OM after she claimed the affair was over she said to me "why do I have to stop talking to him if you're talking to OMW"? I replied "because I'm not sleeping with her!" Didn't really change WW much and didn't help the situation, but it made me feel better.

I also understand what you're going through.