Hopefully, my future posts will reflect my pulling back, and see where the ride takes me.
I have thought about setting aside some time to sit and talk "business" stuff. What she plans. Timeframes. Finances if she moves out. Finances if she stays. My expectations. Her expectations. Let her know I want kids half the time.
Good or bad? Makes sense to me.
I am so sorry but man..
Who cares what she thinks ! YOU are what matters now. Five years from now is what you make it out to be.. from now on ! Yes.. CODEPENDENCY ! Quit it ! GAL..
Have you ever been independant of another in a relationship ? Your happiness and inner self does not stem from someone else (ie. stbxw). It is YOU.. from you.. and by you !
