I haven't posted before but I just wanted to agree with Dom R. Please don't make the same mistakes I did, I have been regretting a single conversation for the past 8 months now and I may never be able to make up for what I said. Believe me, he won't forget it but you may be able to work past it. I thought words weren't important but they are, they have an enormous impact on people. Having that knowledge and knowing that you really didn't mean it is a hard thing to live with.
If you truly meant what you said then you'll just have to see how things go, however if you want to save your marriage you need to act now.
