he's going to take my child away

[NikB]

Good luck Mary!! I think you'll be fine.

[NikB]

PS - you may want to ask the moderators to edit your post (hit the "notify" button to do so). I would strongly recommend that you have all the personal info edited out of that post (your D's name, school name, and especially your H's full name). I notified them already too, but they're probably more likely to take action if you request it.

Not to scare you, but just remember that this site is not private - anyone can read the posts. It would be pretty easy at this point to find out a lot of info on you, your H, your D, etc. The posts also show up on Google sometimes. If your H or someone else happened to Google his name, your thread could show up. (it takes awhile though so you should be fine if you ask them to edit it today)

[spark]

just got back. social services was there and said there was "no findings" (good news) on their part. the case now has to be postponed to the 13th because the judge wants Isabella interviewed by the child advocate before a decision is made.

Also, FRANK SPENT THE 401 MONEY i WAS DUE!!!! I am literally screwed and don't know what I'm going to do. my dad just paid 6000 for attorney fees and I can't go to him. I was completely counting on this money. I don't know what to do at all here.

[AmyC]

Mary I only started reading your story today but I am alarmed at how much personal information you have posted.

These threads come up in google and yahoo searches. You have put your daughters name as well as the name of her school on here and the way things are in the world today, not to mention your seemingly very vindictive husband, that is very dangerous.

Take care and post carefully.




AmyC

[Virtually_Handsome]

Do you know he spent it? Or did he just way he did. I would really listen to the advice not to talk to him about any of this. The only person he needs to hear from now is your lawyer. Get him on the job, let him earn his $6000! I think your H may "find" some money pretty quickly, with a little motivation from your L!

[NikB]

Also, FRANK SPENT THE 401 MONEY i WAS DUE!!!!

Was this before, or after he sold your car that he stole? (the one that miraculously reappeared, or that he stole back from the buyer, or whatever the he!! he did with it)

I can't believe you even listen to a word coming out of his mouth anymore.

Let your L deal with it. Turn it over to him - then WALK AWAY and calm down, get yourself into a better frame of mind.

I asked before but didn't see if you replied - is there at least something in place to specify where your daughter is to be until the hearing? And is someone checking on her? I hope so.

And I agree with Amy - please please please notify the moderators to edit that post! I just realized that along with the personal info, there's also your D's schedule. Do a quick Google search with even a snippet of the info that you posted - you'll see why we're concerned.

[Bworl]

Just to emphasize the need to get this personal info OFF your thread...

I now know exactly where your husband works, what his title is, what his educational background is, and what he looks like.


That should scare the hell out of you.

Get that stuff OFF your thread NOW.


Blessings,

Bill

[spark]

I called the office. they are taking care of it.

I'm so freakin' scared right now. I'm not as worried about the custody issue, but I cannot believe he spent the 401 money -- I was totally counting on it!!

Mary

[Virtually_Handsome]

I don't think he spent it. I think he's trying to hide it. St this point, if his mouth is moving, he's probably lying!

(((((Mary)))))

[NikB]

I repeat: I can't believe you even listen to a word coming out of his mouth anymore.

(((Mary)))