Hope4us struggle, part 4

[Hope4us]

But if she WANTS to pull me into an R talk, it would be the perfect time for me to see where we stand. I mean, it would give me the perfect opportunity to say to her I'm not going to be just roommates the next two years and if that's what she wants, leave now. If she really wants to work on this, then lets do what we BOTH want/need to fix it.