I agree completely. In fact, when she started sending the TM's talking about it I thought it would be the perfect opportunity to say "so just where do we stand cause if you're planning on us just being roommates, I'm not agreeing to buy a pool". Might be a good way to have a R talk without getting into an R talk, KWIM?

Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.