Is that running away, like what he did to me? Probably part of it.
It's a tough call - "they" always say not to make big life changing decisions in the year or so after a D, because you're not thinking as clearly.
But given your specific circumstances, I actually think moving would be a very healthy fresh start for you. Being away from CW and from H's parents just seems like a VERY good idea.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread