ms ladybug SQUISHED!

[cat03]

hey Mslb, I know you aren't so crazy about my advice, but I just have to post something.

Yes, it could be that he is having a hissy fit and he's told you that just to get back at you, in which case some time and no R questions would be in order.

I read the convo where you told him nothing will change, etc etc. At the danger of beating a dead horse, never ever say something of that magnitude if you dont' really mean it, having a great comeback is worthless if it is going to bite in the butt later.

I told you I'd get to the point of it being over unless you could show me changes.

This is what he wants, to prove you are either crazy and to make you admit to things you are "guilty" of in his eyes, how can you do that? I don't know what specifically he is talking about, but it seems to me he is the one with the MAJOR problems and not you. You've put up with some abuse here and he's the one asking for changes, it is a never ending story, he's expecting you change, you hoping he goes back to the man you married (the problem is you do want to make things work if only he'd work alongside you)

For now just let him be.