he's going to take my child away

[NikB]

PS - you may want to ask the moderators to edit your post (hit the "notify" button to do so). I would strongly recommend that you have all the personal info edited out of that post (your D's name, school name, and especially your H's full name). I notified them already too, but they're probably more likely to take action if you request it.

Not to scare you, but just remember that this site is not private - anyone can read the posts. It would be pretty easy at this point to find out a lot of info on you, your H, your D, etc. The posts also show up on Google sometimes. If your H or someone else happened to Google his name, your thread could show up. (it takes awhile though so you should be fine if you ask them to edit it today)