Again I want to thank you all for your wonderful encouraging words. You all understand how difficult this is.

I hate that I do not have control over my house. H leaves me a message when I come home (just now at 1130) that he needs to be in the house to study from 12:30-2:30 which means all of my plans for the house today (practice my guitar and do some things around the house). Instead I am going to go to the library and work on my book. But still...I hate the control that he has. He wants to be in the house so he can. It sucks.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08