O.K. Here is my list of things that my H has said or done that have been good for our Reconciliation: -When H first told me he wanted to work on our M, he said things like *he knows he hurt me badly *he knows he put the blame on me, *he knows he needs to rebuild my trust and there is nothing more he wants to do, *he didnt think he gave enough effort in previous reconciliation attempts, *he said he knows he loves me and its the strongest feeling on earth. -He gave me a diamond "lifes journey necklace after we were together for a week. -He started to reconnect with some of our old friends for a few weeks after he came back (but now he seems no longer interested in doing so). -He has been wearing his wedding band. -He has agreed to go on a bahamas cruise with me over our anniversary in August. -He texts me sweet things sometimes when we arent together. -He has introduced me as his wife to most people he brings me around. -We had a bad argument and he decided to stay and work through things instead of leaving and hurting me again.
I dont know how to think of my situation. I cant tell wether things are going well and I need to have more patience, or if things are as bad as I feel they are at times. I just get frustrated because I have read before that when a couple tries to reconcile they usually end up with a better M - and this doesnt feel like it is better to me.
There are so many awkward situations due to him not being able to face my family & friends. It seems so unfair to me. I have to do everything alone when my friends get together and then my H has said that he doesnt want me to come between him & his new buddies so I also feel awkward hanging with that group. TIPPER
