in limbo and an emotional mess...

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karen, I think dysfunctional to describe the OW out there is probably an understatement, I just can't figure out what is so appealing about someone who has nothing. H's problem with OW is he doesn't see the lies or games she is playing, not like I do, its much easier to blame her ex for the mess she's in that he was too controlling of her, etc. I have a different take on that but won't even go there with H cause she has totally turned H away from her ex who was his best friend for at least 20 years. She calls his cell phone I can't tell you how many times a day, and texts as well. I wish I had the time to GAL,, maybe someday, but with work and the kids the time just isn't there. H needs to get her out of his place or nothing will change. I just don't think H will "throw" her out..