Men need respect and woman need love! Men like to talk about their accomplishments and they are typically so proud of what they do.

Your job Trusting is to agree with h and throw in now and again I am really impressed with the direction your going, I like that idea h that makes sense, whatever fits the conversation Trusting. When he says things like "learned some lessons", say something like h thank you for saying that, I know it's not easy to admit your mistakes. Thank you, that means a lot to me.

You see Trusting it really is very simple. The hard part is when you don't agree, so just don't disagree. Not now! That comes much much later.

Now continue down this path for at least 6-8 weeks and see where you go. Each time h leaves he will be thinking to himself, wow Trusting has grown, she really understands me. I can talk with her more openly now. Hmmmmmm, he starts to think.

Now don't go overboard, just enough to validate your h's feelings of what he is talking to you about and always say it with a SMILE! Like you just took a Happy Pill!

St John's Wart and 5 HTP works wonders.

Good luck!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"