You know I have to say. I might agree with the therapist. My H has done the same thing to women in past relationships. He used to live with a girl and desided one day he was going to move to another country, packed his stuff and left and never spoke to her again. So I think this is in him, however I did not see it, the man I married was wonderful, but I don't think that was who he is. I don't think he will ever have a successful relationship unless he can recognize that in himself.