"The Golden Rule doesn't work in marriage: you cannot treat your spouse the way in which YOU would like to be treated and expect them to be happy -- they won't be. It's so much more enriching and enjoyable to serve that lovely member of the opposite that you married when you stop trying to force them to be like you, and really appreciate, deeply appreciate, who they actually are."
That is really profound! No wonder I don't understand why my H is so angry all the time...
