H4H: I swear, pulling back seems so detrimental to the R
I did too and I still do, but we really have no choice. If they will not give up OM, no cake for you.
I had other reasons for being nice to my W, I wanted her to walk out on me and the kids, so I could use that when I eventually file for D.
Now I treat her like a business partner, she is briefed each monrning on what she needs to know regarding running the house when she arrives in the morning and that is it. We discuss schedules kids games, etc. When summer is over, I will have less and less contact with her YEH!!!!!
The ball has always been in her court - I'm not going to wait indefinitely for her to play ball with me, I will find another game in town.
I truly hope your situation works out for you and your W
We all have a long haul ahead of us good or bad it's the path we choose thats important.
M45 W41 M10 3/4 years D9, D6, D6, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08
