Sorry your H said that, but if you want it to work don't give up hope. Your H is basically telling you he doesn't want to hear words he wants to see actions. He sounds very frustrated.
Regroup, re-evaluate and show him you can change if you want to.
My W has asked for a D several times. She has yet to file and I am not going to do it for her.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning