just an update. I havent seen ex since he took me to court last august, neither has son, he hasn't bothered with his only child for 14 months now. I have just been up to see some friends of mine that live near my old home, the one ex is selling, as I was walking past the end of the street low and behold who should be there showing some people around but ex, funny how as he saw me he got hid behind these people so I couldn't see him, what the hell he is on is anyones guess, he is 46 years old and hiding behind peoples backs, I also noticed his hair is totally grey now and he is growing it long he looked like a bush baby I didn't get close enough to see his face, oh and new wifey weren't there to stick up for him