She is the one who seems to sway back and forth, while I am maintaining consistency. She made a promise to herself to leave, and she does not wish to betray her own promise. But in the same light, that promise was in part based off the old me. So when she see's positive changes in me, it kinda throws her for a loop. But she has seen this before, and I would tend to regress...so she seems to be expecting that to happen again.
But it wont! I am enjoying my new sense of self mastery and the upward spiral that comes along with it. :-)
Energy, Good plan! Just keep in mind sometimes the spouse is actually fearful of your changes. Afterall, she has made the right decision. Just don't be surprised if she is looking for any little hint of a slip up to validate her "decision". Don't let this keep you from continuing from making this changes just don't be discouraged by something small gatting blown out of proporttion to suit her "needs". I have had this happen to me.
TwinDad Me 39, W 36, M 11 W - MLC, WAW???? 2 Kids B/G 3 YRS Old Start of the Long and Bumpy Road..... On the verge of piecing.....a new beginning
