I think it is important in piecing to be totally open and clear about what both sides want and what each person's respective expectations are. No walking on egg shells - this is important.

My husband and I had to be 100% open and honest - even then it's a big, long road to travel and will have it's bumps along the way.

One spends so long fighting for the M to survive, that when a chance comes along for just that to happen, it can be quite a daunting prospect. Don't settle; strive for the M you want.

Good luck

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength