Thanks everyone for your support. Glam, I appreciate your advice so much. Sometimes I need a kick in the butt so don't hesitate to do that. I really am open to all suggestions.

I see ex on Sunday again when he drops the kids off. When I saw him the other day he was trying so hard to constantly impress me about everything in his life. I chuckled inside but was just grateful the conversation was positive. Why do they do this?

Ex also made a comment that he is now "paying for his mistakes" and has "learned some lessons". Everything was so vague. It is interesting though to see their baby steps.....

No expectations though. He is still taking OW on trips and things. He told me he is leaving town at the end of the month. I am assuming another trip with OW. Last year they went on 10 of them.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11