I just wanted to ask you a few questions if you don't mind. I think we sound pretty similar in that we are both the givers/ supporters/ fixers in our respective relationships.
How did you balance supporting her and keeping your distance, if you did both?
Did your wife say that she didn't want your support anymore and if so, what steps did you take then?
Hope you don't mind answering, if you do don't worry! I just feel like even though my h has said he can't carry on he is still looking for me to fix things. On the one hand I am loath to but on the other it could be his way of reaching out - or I could be delusional :-) that is always a possibility!
