ms ladybug SQUISHED!

[Dom R]

Dom, I think it really is over. I mean, just the look on his face tonight was unreal. He walked in the house, sat down across from me and said, "you're response yesterday that nothings going to change tells me that you're not willing to make changes.

Ladybug:

everything he said, confirms that everything I said, is true.
word for word.

you cant talk to him tonight, this is clear.

you might not even be able to talk to him tomorrow.

Just survive for a day or two, until you can.

If you dont completely panic, things can work out ok.
dont tell your kids anything right now.

When I tried to talk to him tonight, he said that I only want to talk because of this, but before I never wanted to.

and... he's right, yes?

So... this is another opportunity for you, when the times comes.
Another opportunity, to admit, "yes, you are completely right."


Read what I've posted to you, in 24 hours.

YOU cant focus on it right now. But maybe you will be able to do so then.

come back. read it. see what you think then.

This is the equivalent of a "count to 20 before getting mad" excercise. Just a lot tougher, and a lot longer

hang in there.
take some sleeping pills/booze/whatever (in reasonable moderation!), and try to sleep for now.

i'm going to try to do the same.