ladybug....

it's not over.

he's reacting to what YOU said to him.

please take a deep breath... calm down.... then reread what I wrote to you in your prior thread.

I believe that every word I wrote, is still true.
Even the part about him doing his part, if you do yours.

he's only "given up", because it seems to him like YOU have given up, based on your last conversation with him.
you're the one who told him first that it "wasnt worth trying", and things were over.

you have the power to change that.

The biggest power you have in that reguard, i think, is to try my "1." suggestion, with sincerity. You may be amazed at how powerful it can be.

Last edited by Dom R; 06/06/08 05:37 AM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle