First let me say I am so sorry that you find yourself here. This is a place none of us want to be in, but there are alot of great people here that give wonderful, supportive advice. I'm pretty new to this rollercoaster so I dont have alot to offer as of yet. Are you two seeing a MC? Sounds like your H is willing to work on the R but just doesnt know how to make things better. That puts you in a much better position that most of us here. Have hope, as long as he is willing to work on it, take him up on it. Many people have said that after living through the A and fixing the R they went on to have a much better R.
Good Luck.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008