Thanks for more great advice ROOT. I keep hearing conflicting messages - get a LS to protect yourself, if you get a LS then that makes the D so much easier. I want to be protected (already started slowly pulling cash and opened a seperate account) but I dont want to make it easy at all for him to walk away. I do have a consult on Monday w L just to get some answers. I will be telling him I DO NOT WANT A D! We'll see what he says.

Another question for the group: I have read several times that most affairs do not last a year. Has that been your expierence or not?


Broken Hearted
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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

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