Thanks for more great advice ROOT. I keep hearing conflicting messages - get a LS to protect yourself, if you get a LS then that makes the D so much easier. I want to be protected (already started slowly pulling cash and opened a seperate account) but I dont want to make it easy at all for him to walk away. I do have a consult on Monday w L just to get some answers. I will be telling him I DO NOT WANT A D! We'll see what he says.
Another question for the group: I have read several times that most affairs do not last a year. Has that been your expierence or not?
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008