"If I could have a bumper sticker attatched to my thread, it would say "I've been gumped!" LOL!!!"

Thanks.. it means a lot.

"she encouraged me to send an apology to H's family....I had told her in our conversation I had felt bad for some of things I had said and done....but was waiting for things to get a little better between the H and I before apologizing."

I would like to hear some of the story behind that. I may have missed it.

Relax
Eat
Think
Act normal
React.. Smartly.
Do something different.
Emulate.
Do Work.

Lets get "RETARDED" in here.