actually, I'm way better at giving the advice than taking it. aren't we all though.
I think giving some time is a good idea. maybe even getting H to schedule an appointment with you lol. one thing I've learned, is to try to let them have some control, and to find the right times to do things. I think that's a big issue with men, is that it's almost just as annoying to them WHEN we bring things up as opposed to WHAT we bring up. I think your idea is good, and you just have to try and see what works on him. maybe give him an incentive for working the budget with you. tell him he gets a nice massage or something afterwards.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
