I wonder that myself sometimes. And the reality of it is, I don't like my alien very much. But I do love my H, and I do love the person he was, and that I sometimes see glimpses of now.
Your H may grow and become a great person because of these experiences. You never know. So why not give it a chance? Hang in there a while and just see what happens.
(((cw)))
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2