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Its hard to say if its mlc or WAW
but the dbing is the same
she is at the right age for MLC and has the signs..looking good, younger
more will be revealed
patience is the key and just continue working on self
right now anything is possible
some spouses file and dont go thru
some never file and still dont return
there is no way to know at the beginning
it takes usually 1-2 plus years from what i see
usually its up to us to see how long we can wait it out
no guarantees except many LBS do come out of this stronger with self esteem / happiness and all the other rewards one gets with positive change
we needed this crises to wake up and change
so keep with thte changes and w will be curious
without DBing , we LBS would most likely totally ruin any chance to restore R
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow