I agree that the "mother bear" instinct is very strong--it has been given to us for a reason. It is a POSITIVE thing to want to protect your child. It is just how you channel that energy. You are very strong in your faith; pray for her. And know that your example and love, built up over these many years of her life, acts as a shield from permanent damage, so that whatever happens will be but a challenge and learning opportunity for her as she continues to grow. The foundation that you have built for her is strong and will see her through. You will also be the one who she goes home to, where any hardships she might encounter will quickly deminish is size when she comes home. ((((lnf))))