SH
I think it is positive that you and H shared a good night together and he is more interested in boys
I think we need to focus all our energy well 90% on ourselves
what can we do to pull our selves up affirmations work well
new friends, exercise meditation prayer sleep rest play
then spend 10% into the R, a nice talk, a thank you for something then 90% back on us
when we keep replenishing us, we have more to give kids
you will get your center back..It has nothing to do with them
we get confused and think it does..that is an illusion they could never make us happy anyway..only we could
this has to be first..then only a R will work anyway
Just my opinion!
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow