Now you get to show that THAT aspect of the old person has changed as well.
You know how insane your insecurity sounds because you said so yourself.
There is no healthy couple on the face of the earth that spends every blessed minute together.
Healthy is EVERY aspect of your life in tune and working the way it should.
This is a SIGN to you, FROM HER. It tells you that she is feeling some security. Enough security to risk asking for something that in the past would have brought recrimination from you.
So...
You're up to the plate and the pitcher just fired off a curve ball. You going to whiff out of impatience, or are you going to keep your weight back and send that curve ball out of the park?
If you're half the man I've come to believe you are, I know that you'll be circling the bases with the crowd cheering.
Blessings,
Bill
She texted me a little while ago to say what's up.....
Also, this is not the only time she has been away from me in the last couple of months. We ARE spending way too much time up each other's you know what, but she has been away over night with girlfriends, out here and there with friends and family, etc.
I have shown her several times that I am not going to put her through the same old crap she dealt with before at these times.....and when she is out, testing the waters or what ever you want to call it....she is normally the one to initiate some form of contact...text or a quick call to say..What's up??
So I know she is thinking about me....in a better way than she would have 6 months or a year ago.
