V I like what you said earlier about if H doesnt return, your next companion will reap the benefits of your growth,,i agree..so true ..most healthy men would be grateful to get a loving validaing, caring wife..except our H of course! why are our H so stupid, surely they can see the changes, yet they continue on this road..no R could be better than if your original spouse has really changed and obviously has stood by you thru thick and thin they must get glimpses of what their life will look like if they stay with the OW..she isnt healthy or anywhere close to where we are peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
